Good evening, I am Grace.
Happiness in this world is all the same and the same, but misfortune has its own misfortune.
When a man is not in love, he will express positively and accurately tell? Almost all men are willing to choose another subtle way to convey their own unloved signals, know a little bit of interest will feel cold and refused, take the initiative to leave, willing to wait and see the people like to pester, trying to use their own humble in exchange for his pity and warmth, but goodwill is not love, pity is not love.
Men do not love, his dignity as a man still support him to do some decent and open things, for example, to help you deal with life chores; for you to return to the second; to protect your well-being and so on, in short, how did he love you before, but also slightly retained, which is probably a deep love after the mercy and forgiveness of it.
But not love is not love, it carries a naked misery, can not be ignored.
When you feel the man with these manifestations, unfortunately, he has not loved, or ready to leave everything, just he is waiting for your acceptance and recognition:
First, more and more busy, not only passive, but also avoid the two together, including contact;
Second, the eyes can not see your advantages, all your shortcomings, shortcomings and problems;
Third, do not want to talk about the future, do not want to be responsible, do not want to bear, do not want to pay, involving the cost of the problem, he will escape.
Than adoration, not love is more obvious, just not accepted by people, because not love is too tragic, but also the lack of some beauty and romance, people are more willing to believe that they are being held and cherished, but also do not want to admit to be forgotten and put down.
The tendency to avoid harm is the instinctive reaction of human beings.
In the face of other people’s adoration, even if they do not like, will rise up inside the happy emotions, but in the face of other people’s unlove, the heart will inevitably be sad or uncomfortable, in short, is not very willing to accept, based on the gap, the more you feel the other side began a variety of vague and perfunctory, you should be more vigilant, once you find the other side want to leave, or want to end, the most decent way, in fact, is to respect the person’s The most decent way, in fact, is to respect people’s choice and decision, do not love to separate, if you love to love.
Are adults, do not drag not owe, better than entangled endless tear.
Men do not love, feel faint, will release some signals
1
More and more busy, not only passive, but also to avoid the two together, including the contact
Love you, even if you get up in the middle of the night is possible, but no longer love, even if idle and bored, will not respond to you, love and not love is so obvious.
When a man no longer loves you, tend to get busier and busier, more than passive, but also to avoid the two alone, always afraid to meet alone, but also not willing to face to face exchanges, including private WeChat chatting, including, he is also averse to, to avoid.
When you find a man began to have these avoidance behaviours, basically can prove that he wants you to take the initiative to leave, people are not very busy, but you are very busy, and not do not like the company and chat, but more like to change the personal company and chat.
There is a girl is such a situation, she and her boyfriend after the hot love, found that the boys cold a lot, at first she did not take it seriously, just think the feelings, there is always a period of calm, perhaps they are in the period of calm, and then a thing completely let her understand how.
When she looked at the boys mobile phone chat records, only to find himself in his mouth how bad and humble, he even talked with a strange woman in full swing, and even the two of them are in love with the woman said, which makes the girl is very disappointed, and later, the girls did not even say goodbye, directly separated.
What busy? What not active? What tired? These reasons, in fact, are men want to avoid the two alone on the pretext, and he also dare not face up to the end of the relationship, for fear of carrying a reputation, rather than let you slowly accept the fact that you are not willing to take the initiative to admit.
2
You can’t see your strengths in your eyes, it’s all about your weaknesses, shortcomings and problems.
The relationship of the flat period, and do not love, is completely two different things.
The former is to get along with not so warm, not so romantic, but the minimum heartache or have, such as each other sick, hurt, sad, etc., or will show sympathy and anxious, but do not love it, often indifferent, and can even look at you hurt helpless, but happy to laugh, this is the difference.
Once you feel that men can ignore your bitter and sweet, and take your vulnerability as a joke, in fact, he already do not care about you, or long ago did not love.
Without heartache, how can there be love?
It is difficult to imagine such a situation, a man can coldly watch you suffer, but can be indifferent, unless his love for you from the beginning to now are disguised, otherwise it is impossible to do so indifferent.
When he is no longer anxious about you, and can even refuse your help, then what are you waiting for? Meet the man who does not love you, smart women run are too late it, where there are still people foolishly look forward to, look forward to, and then look forward to?
In fact, the man who can not heartache you, have long been eyes can not see your sense of existence, and even wipe out your value and merits, full of your problems, your shortcomings, your bad and so on, and even your precious in the eyes of others have become cheap in his eyes.
And then love a person, don’t be humble, you can love deeply, but can’t be low into the dust, because no one will cherish the grey-headed people, even if your love is sincere, heart, but also can’t.
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Do not want to talk about the future, do not want to be responsible, do not want to take responsibility, do not want to pay, involving the cost of the issue, he will escape all of them
Refuse to think about the future with you, there is a distant future about happiness, he does not want to look forward to with you.
Perhaps some people will say, some men are childish, not mature enough, he is not responsible and do not want to take responsibility, but the mind is not mature, in fact, does not exist, as long as the man loves you, no matter how big, he is responsible for and take responsibility for the courage and sincerity.
There was a very interesting little story, is this way, kindergarten boys and girls, the relationship is very good, he promised the girl said, will marry her later.
One day, the boy brought two lollipops from home, gave the girl a, the girl said timidly, in case of eating lollipops have what to do?
The girl said timidly, “What if the lollipop is gone?” The boy said with a boyish look on his face, “It’s all right, I’ll marry you, because I have a lot of money in my piggy bank, and you don’t have to worry about anything.
The girl smiled happily and then ate the lollipop with the boy. Probably this is the love of the most primitive, the most genuine look, not mixed with any utilitarian colours, there is no desire to cross the streams, just because like and like, but also just because of adoration and care.
You see, at such a young age, the boy has the courage to be responsible and responsible, not to mention an adult man? As long as a man is in love, he will be responsible and take responsibility, unless he just doesn’t love anymore, or starts to not love anymore.
Regarding the future, both men and women will have expectations, there is no such thing as immature conditions, a little early or a little late, only involves the question of whether he is enough to love.
Do not want to give up other options, men will refuse to discuss the future with you, encounter such a situation, or forget it, because it is not worth it.
True heart to leave the right person, true love to pour to the most real people, meet ambiguous and ambiguous with your people, not as good as forget it.
