The first step is to create more opportunities, step by step to deepen her heart
The first step is to determine the relationship, after the girl agreed to be your girlfriend, many people always want to further enhance each other’s feelings and can not do anything about it. In fact, the reason for this is that there are too many missed opportunities to enhance the relationship. Girls are detail-oriented, they are very concerned about helping to take the coat, bag, these small actions. Do these details, you do not need to deliberately to enhance your relationship will rise to another level. However, it should be noted that the thoughtful action must be adapted to the specific circumstances, otherwise it is easy to make a mistake.
The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal on your own.
Men with high emotional intelligence in the pursuit of girls, know how to step by step, want to capture the truth. They will not be particularly anxious and girls together, they always first look at girls like what type of boys, from friends to start, nothing when the girl is always about it, the two people alone date can make the two people’s feelings heat up faster. When pursuing girls, you must not be too anxious. If you’re too eager to pursue a girl, it’s easy for her to think you’re a frivolous man. Want a woman to have a better impression of you, a man must know the student gradually, slowly let you on to understand you, so that in the pursuit of girls you will be more easy.
Spiritual attraction
01: Values attraction
In fact, can be attracted to you and you really like the girl are the same or similar to your values. For example, you value the spiritual life more, feel that the material conditions can meet the basic needs of life, no car can be, if the girl is also like this, then you will live a very happy life
So, there is no one standard for being rich, and there is no one standard for being successful, the only standard is whether you two feel that the life you are living now is what you want. Strive hard for your common goal.
02: Love concept attraction
Some people like the elusive mystery, some people like unrealistic romance, some people like fresh and exciting, everyone likes the feeling is not the same, can you bring her the feeling of love, the feeling of the heart? Here you need to care about her with all your heart, understand her, see what she really wants is which kind of love, which kind of feeling, and then bring her on it. Don’t tell me you don’t know how to do this, but this is what all the articles on Bubbles.com teach.
03: Future life attraction
People live for what, in addition to the happy present is full of hope for the future. So in addition to our sincere and bubble learning techniques to create a happy present, but also with practical action to give women hope.
I am a progressive man, I’m for you, for our future life I ate even more suffering, shed more sweat is worth it, because it’s all for the beloved you. Of course, some of these words you do not have to say out, she can feel it.
- Need but not demand
Many people are not clear about the definition of the sense of need, the normal expression of appreciation and demand but do not require the results of the behaviour, are not considered to expose the sense of need. We simply call it needing and not wanting. Remember, in the attraction to the woman before, do not ask her to do things she think should not be, more should not be in the screw up from the requirements into prayers, you not only lost the attraction and the loss of the man should have the self-esteem, the rest will only be a complete loss of her! The real girl master, will express their own appreciation and needs to the woman, but will not ask the woman to give results. Because they know, women need what kind of man, brave and confident not to force!
- Sense of security
The key to long-term attraction is a sense of security, which comes from your mannerisms and other behaviours. You have to let the woman think that even if there are a lot of women like you only like her one, when you go out to play she will not have a sense of crisis. There is a degree of security and crisis in the middle, that is, under your sense of security, harmless can get a little crisis, let the woman know that you are very popular, but you belong to him.
- Language
Steady and generous boy is almost all women appreciate and like, so in contact with women do not say some nebulous words, and people say ideal say life, these things are very difficult to understand, not to mention some vulgar language, even if you wear a good, dirty words out of your whole person is equal to zero.
- Mystery
DHV (Demonstration of Value) to appear constantly, always let the girls have a kind of unpredictable feeling for you. This requires that you just start the DHV can not be too much too fast, DHV to maintain a long-term effect.
- Keep the frame
Everyone’s frame is different, but it’s important to keep your frame. My frame is: to learn to reject women and screen women. For example: your girlfriend called to say especially want you, want to come to see you, you can say yes to her 2 times, reject her 1 time, of course, you reject her reason can be too busy at work or because you feel that every day to meet will be tired of the reasons. Screening women is also a high level of fugue, you can bury this frame on her: I will only love the woman who appreciates me, I like the woman must be to wear feminine clothes. The man who keeps the frame is the most attractive, the man who keeps the frame is what society now says is the high standard man. Let her to adapt to your time, let her to adapt to your habits and life!
- Romantic and funny, will coax people
Men how to coax women to be happy, then you in the pursuit of girls when you will also be very easy, and high emotional intelligence men are know how to be romantic, with funny language to coax women to be happy. Men need to know that if you don’t know how to be romantic and you can’t coax a girl to be happy, then you will easily spend a lot of energy when you are pursuing a girl. Girls need to be coaxed, and if a man doesn’t know how to use humorous language to lasso a woman’s heart, then when pursuing a girl, the girl doesn’t like to chat with such a man. So men must know how to be humorous, so that when pursuing you raw will also be half easy.