“To like, is to walk towards you even if you are stumbling.”
If you like someone or not, even if your mouth can lie, your body must be the most honest.
It is said that when you don’t like someone, you will instinctively want to reject them. And when you like someone, you can’t help but want to be close to them.
What’s the real love like?
When she meets you, she will secrete adrenaline hormones and be so nervous that she is at a loss for words.
She’ll practice the scene and lines in her mind.
Even her breathing and expression will be carefully practised over and over again.
No matter how many times a girl has been in love and how many ways she has seen, she will still be as shy as the first time she fell in love when she sees you.
So when a girl falls in love with someone, what are the reactions caused by the dopamine produced by her body?
01
If you love someone, you can’t control your eyes
People will lie, but the eyes will not. To know whether a woman really loves you, not just from her mouth to get the answer, but also to see her eyes!
When you are in love, love your woman, look at you, the eyes are affectionate, showing a kind of tenderness, hate to melt you with their own tenderness!
Love your woman, and you together, her eyes will always be in your body, because the heart will not have other people, so always staring at you!
The woman who does not love you, and you together just because of their own momentary needs, even if the mouth said how much they love you, but the heart does not have that feeling. Therefore, they and you together is to take you as a spare wheel, look at your eyes are perfunctory
02
The instinct to love someone is to want to be close
When I was brushing Twitter in the morning, I read a post retweeted by a friend.
The blogger said, she and her boyfriend fell in love not long ago, her boyfriend is very considerate of her, three minutes after the fight will certainly coax her, all she likes to eat things he can remember, will change a lot of bad habits for her, in short, is very spoiled her.
But the blogger said, if she is like him, it should be very sweet, when they were together because of love at first sight, but together for 2 months, she realised, in fact, their own very instinctive rejection of the two relationships, only to maintain the level of eating and shopping, there is no hand-holding, there is no kissing, not to mention the development of a deeper level of relationship.
Finally, the blogger concluded: he will instinctively exclude a close to me, I’m not showing that he does not love him at all, to break up heartily?
The bottom of a bunch of comments, are saying: split it, even holding hands can not, how to talk about love?
I was once with a boy who had been chasing me for a long time, but after I got together I realised that I was particularly repulsed by his proximity.
I remember vividly once, is a birthday party he drank too much, put his arm around my shoulders, and then fell asleep against me, but at that time my feeling is not sweet, but goosebumps all over my body, guilty of nausea, by his arm very much want to cry very much want to run away, I feel sorry for myself, and then after the party is over, I think I understand, I do not love him at all.
After reading the stories of these two bloggers, my brain naturally associated with a saying: if you like someone, your mouth will lie, but your body is very honest.
Sometimes we are blinded by the so-called good feeling, thinking that is like, is love.
But if you are in a relationship with someone, walking together, the moment physical contact is involved, the thought of holding hands and kissing, gives you an instinctive reaction to stay away, rather than closer, then please believe that it is not like, let alone love.
Because the real love of a person, is instinctively want to get close to, rather than away from
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Really love you, will want to kiss you
I remember a reader once left a message I said:
Can not understand their boyfriend is not really love themselves, or that too stupid, and he was together for three months, only held hands twice.
Readers also said that he never kissed her, never embraced her, sometimes she took the initiative to approach, her boyfriend will instinctively backward, and then left and right, anyway, is not much intimacy, feeling that the gap between the two will always be separated.
Ask you all you like a person, will not want to kiss her, keep a safe distance?
That’s impossible! Really like her, will want to kiss want to embrace want to always get tired together ah. For men, see the smooth eyes of the woman, will instinctively want to get close to, let alone like the person! Keep a safe distance still how to fall in love?
Even if it is just a couple in love, and how to restrain, but also will try to get close to each other, you that kind of situation, have to make an explanation, then there is a possibility, is not love.
I suddenly remembered a saying I had read: sweet words can be copied, but physical reactions are subconscious instinctive responses that don’t lie.
After thinking about it, it’s true.
If a man says he loves you but never wants to hold hands, kiss or hug you, he is not being formal or awkward, he simply doesn’t have you in his heart, which is why he instinctively rejects it
No one will not want to be close to the favourite person, and no one will not want to hold hands, kiss, embrace with the favourite person, if there is, that is not like.
