If you want to chase a girl, but you do not understand her heart, a woman’s heart, the needle on the bottom of the sea,” that the woman’s mind always seems to be unpredictable, just or sunny day, immediately will become a storm, very difficult to figure out. But the fact that women’s hearts are not so difficult to understand, just that we are not good at observation, as long as the heart to observe, they will find what their hearts want, let’s read a woman’s heart, see if you can read!
Listening to the words will mean
People often say: “love like a battlefield”, boys should be well versed in the “soldiers are not too deceitful” reasoning, for the girl’s language, the timely use of a little bit of the opposite and think of the reverse thinking method, to a negative words will be the right intention. In this way, in the love field you can successfully “capture” the girl’s heart. Some girls often call their boyfriends to say: “I’m very busy recently, really can not meet with you.” “I want to travel alone to relax, can not meet with you recently.” If you believe that, then you are a big fool, she is really so busy, how would she still have time to call or write to you to complain about it?
Confidence
A confident man is equivalent to a successful man in the eyes of women. So, in order to make women feel good about you, even if you don’t have self-confidence, you have to act confident, don’t think that this judgement is randomly superficial. For women. If a man does not even have self-confidence, then basically it is not worth relying on, so what to do to show confidence? If you have the following three habits, then you’d better …… change right away! 1, with people talking to the eyes flickering, lack of eye contact. 2, expressionless, do not know how to express their emotions. 3, small voice, often puzzling research shows that in the appearance level of the same, the economic situation and social status is also roughly the same in front of the man. Women are more inclined to those who are generous in demeanour, voice, attitude frank men if you want to radiate confidence from the bottom of the heart. One of the most effective ways is —- self-suggestion, psychological research shows that: self-suggestion can change the subconscious mind, and really affect a person’s demeanour right, you every day in front of the mirror to say: I’m very handsome, you will become more and more self-confident, good look at you oh……
Firstly, always be good at observing a woman’s changing moods and don’t just rely on what she says. If a woman and you say it’s okay, say whatever, say whatever, then you must not really think she is okay whatever. Men are often in the woman was wronged to condemn their own time to put forward this kind of “you and do not say I how to know what you are thinking ah” rebuttal reason. But in the woman’s view, many things do not need to say out of her own mouth, say out of the flavour, she wants you to her mind to figure out, so as to prove that you are on her heart.
Therefore, in the daily process you must pay attention to, when she showed no matter what the real situation in the end, when she is not happy when the mood is how and so on. Even if you really can’t figure it out, you should let her know that you’re trying your best to figure it out instead of just running off and asking her without even thinking about it. You can tell her directly, you thought for a long time why she will be unhappy, but you still can not think of the reason to ask her to tell you, this is also much better than you ask her directly.
Secondly, pay attention to the smallest gestures or unintentional words or requests, that’s what she really wants. For example, she casually mentioned to you one day that she wanted to buy something, and you manfully agreed to buy it for her. And afterwards you thought it was just a joke on the heart, so that time and time again more women will always be in the heart of the accumulation of full of grievances, that you simply do not take her words to the heart that you are simply a person who does not keep their promises and so on. Most of the time, women casually speak out words, often than she seriously up and you speak words more reflect her inner most real situation. Understanding this is the key to reading a woman’s heart.
Listening to the voice to detect the meaning
When chasing girls, boys should be based on the tone of voice in the girl’s conversation, tone of voice to catch the girl’s meaning. Love in the world, guess through the girl’s heart is a variety of ways, the key is that you usually want to observe more, pay attention to the heart, and continue to accumulate experience, mastered a certain skill, will experience with the girl “a little bit of the heart” fun. In fact, the girl’s words are often a twist and turn, if the interaction with the girls, single from the surface of the words to understand things, it will be a big mistake, so you have to grow a few more heart, good from the girl’s words of the potential will to see the problem. Remember, it’s a girl’s speciality to show some kind of meaning through her words. So the boys as long as good observation, a few more attempts, you will be able to read the heart of the woman
1, your movements and speed of speech to be slightly slower, always keep smiling, this will let the girls think you are very “calm”, “mature”. And girls chatting, remember to head side to chat with you girls, listen carefully; arms can not be embraced, so seem serious; body trunk and feet to point to them, in order to show respect. Pay close attention to the girl’s palms so you can tell if they are nervous. If a girl’s palms are often clenched, or if you notice cold or sweaty palms during a handshake, it’s a sign that she’s extremely uncomfortable. You need to start with a bit of humour or light conversation to lighten the mood. It’s hard for a girl to give you the right information when she’s tense.
- The structure of women and men from the body to the psychological are completely different, some in the woman looks like a big problem, in the eyes of the man there is no need to calculate, this is the difference between men and women’s, so the man to understand more about some of the psychology of the woman, in order to get along with the more harmonious.
3, be sure to look more at the girl’s face, not because of shyness and nervousness and look down and say their own. Because there are some subtle expressions, perhaps you will inadvertently ignore, but this may be the most authentic expression. For example, if a girl nods her head when she says she’s not worried about something, but her gut tells you she’s in denial, then nine times out of ten she’s lying. Is not to see her expression, and then avert your eyes.
4, girls don’t talk much, but if you want to get more information, you can say some vague, universal words to search for information. This is especially true for broad questions that apply to anyone, such as: “It’s a shame that you don’t open up to people very much! You’re actually very affectionate and amusing, and an extremely attractive person, but you just haven’t shown it all yet.” Or, if the girl is quiet and introverted, just say, “Your best friend likes to have a good time and is a bright person, right?” It is possible that you are also saying these words casually, but whether she denies it or admits it, it will open up a new topic for you.
5, remember to guide the topic, ask the girl some common questions. It’s like you’re holding a box of old photos in your hand and combing through them for more information. Just for example, many people will have some scars on their legs, most girls will collect some trinkets with special significance”, and everyone may have had some accidents about water when they were young. Then you can try to say to the girl: last night I dreamt of a little girl, she was crying, talking about water and so on. It was like something had happened, and the dream felt like that was when you were a child. Crying can be sad. Grab this point to cold read the girl. If said in, the girl will tell you about her childhood encounters, you understand her more, she also feel closer to you.
6, learn to catch the key body language. If a girl’s hands behind her back or behind her head, it shows that she is very confident and relaxed, arms crossed in front of the chest shows disgust or caution, men with thumbs hooking their trouser pockets or women’s legs winding, playing with the hair are showing a strong sexual power.
Pay attention to your image. Girls will put their best side out, began to pay attention to their own image, for example, every time and like the boys will meet make-up, and then very woman, temperament also followed up, with the boys to talk to the cadence has become a whisper. Ask each other if they have a favourite person. Girls generally can not help it, after all, it is too difficult, the possibility of children anxious will directly ask the boys like their own, but most girls will politely ask the boys have no favourite person, if the boys say yes, the girls will ask who is, if the person is not their own, the girls will show a very stiff expression, not happy but do not want to be seen to be broken. If the boy said no, the girl will inquire about his expectations of his future half.
For example, if the girl holds her chin in her hand, you can do the same. Not only does this make it easier for you to observe her mannerisms, it also makes them drop their guard and open up more to you. Psychologist Jameis Randi has spent a million to confirm the phenomenon. Also, talk like this. You can slowly open a girl’s heart: use “tonal” language.
