Create some jealous skirmishes. Sometimes girls will be ambiguous with other boys, normal dinner shopping or even promised him to watch a film together, but also intentionally be found by you, when you puffed up to her angry temper, she is not very angry, but has been stimulating you, waiting for you to take the initiative to determine the relationship. Spare tire is not what girls want, of course there are a few girls willing to keep a few spare tires, most of the girls, just want a simple comfortable relationship, why have a spare tire, that is the boys themselves are willing to become a spare tire. Friends again asked: from now on not to find her not just?

So if you have such a mature mind, how come you are sad and ruminating over a girl everyday?

Most of the guys who are using the wrong methods to attract a girl start getting depressed when they get rejected by the girl once. Feeling like they can’t live without this girl, they start exposing their neediness like crazy. I understand the reasoning, but I just can’t do it right. This is the common problem of most students, they have learnt a lot of things in the course, but the girl they meet must be different from the course set. We also do not have a set of examination questions, answer 60 points you can have a girlfriend, answer 80 points, you are emotional mentor.

For this reason, we have a homework at the end of each section of the course, you need to follow the requirements to complete, and the content of the homework is very simple, do not care whether it can be successful or not, as long as you go to practice. Just now we said that if you are really a mature boy, you will not go depressed because of a girl, mature people they will spend their time to improve themselves, look at the most practical and comfortable decoration style, custom-made two suits a year, spend time and energy to handmake a marriage proposal video, instead of going home at night holding the phone and brushing to the jitterbugs in the emotional text plucked off and sent to the circle of friends and said in the earth to make up the number of days.

First of all, the ambiguous period of the emotional state tends to be stable, worried about breaking the relationship will break the balance. The ambiguous period is actually not much different from the period of passionate love, in addition to the absence of a clear confession to establish a relationship, between the two people is the state of the couple, such a state will make each other feel comfortable, and along with the ambiguous the longer the time, the deeper the attachment produced.

Deliberately create some physical contact

We all know that physical contact is very conducive to the warming of the relationship between two people. But because you are in the period of recovery, not just know, so in this time, the atmosphere and time to grasp is very important. That is to say, and then produce physical contact between, to learn to create the atmosphere and give each other a reasonable reason.

For example: you intend to hold each other’s hands before the two people can go to eat a candlelight dinner, a piece of after-dinner walk and chat, taking advantage of the beautiful moonlight to the atmosphere and the comfort of the first to establish a good. This time you still don’t act rashly, wait until he sends you home, nothing to say turn around and give him a hug, and then let go and run upstairs. Such a physical touch, guaranteed to make him a night can not sleep.

Secondly, the concentration of feelings is not enough to reach the boiling point of the escalating relationship. If a girl feels that the temperature between you can only become boyfriend and girlfriend if the temperature between you reaches 100°, then even if you have reached 99°, she will not agree to you. We met the girl is bound to not every cheating, but most of the girls met you before or in love with you, there will always be a few suitors, you try to let the girlfriend to the other suitors to pull black, or to warn the suitors away from your girlfriend a little farther, we don’t do not understand the girl’s people, and do not do a childish people. We just need to do well, you are better than the other suitors, your girlfriend can be blind? If you have 10,000 yuan, you are to buy a bag for the girl to pursue her and her together, or to spend the money on themselves, in a suit tie to attract girls?

One of the most talked about phrases before is that you have more skills, but not as much as I drive a Ferrari with one hand. Although it is only flirting, but it is not difficult to find that the high rich handsome tease girl seems to be much simpler. When the rich handsome tease value than their own low sister, you do not have to tease, directly back, but when they want to find and their own value of the same, indeed not so easy.

There is a part of the tease up simple, that is because the girl does not figure your person also do not need you have more love her, is like your money. But we don’t have that much money, and there aren’t that many gold-digging girls around. There are some very good-looking guys, they from the school when there is no shortage of girlfriends around, to the community is still able to navigate in the relationship. Do you think that just being handsome is enough?

In fact, it is because they take advantage of this advantage of their handsome, so that they are full of self-confidence every time they flirt with girls. So how do you get confidence if you’re not tall or handsome? This requires that you always have to know some skills. For example, when to change the topic, how to break the ice, the operation before and after the date. Your thinking skills are not wrong, naturally have confidence, for example:

“You’re 167, I’m 169.”
“It’s okay, it’s good to be taller, you don’t have to feel inferior.”

Many friends course to see four or five times, there are also many friends they look at a few lessons can not see, so also and the beginning of the same, do not know how to return to this sentence, know how to return to this sentence is indeed learned a little bit, but this is, after all, one-sided, if you do not change at all, do not learn the system of the course, do not improve at all, the result is certainly still the same.