Women are basically mouth is not the heart of the creature, as a man must not believe the words of the woman, and in the process of the two people get along, the boy must be more considerate of the girl, only in your thoughtfulness, the girl will love you more. And boys must know how to decipher some of the girl’s little heart, only then, the two sides will become harmonious, the two sides will become more loving, will not let the girl become sensitive.　　

So, what should we do?　　

Men should take further action on the basis of fully observing and confirming that the other party has no resistance. Bravely hold her hand, gently hug her, gently kiss her. However, further development of a relationship with the other person means that physical pleasure will be gained, and at the same time it is accompanied by some kind of danger. Specifically, passionate kissing or touching by a man can bring pleasure to a woman, yet this intimacy can somehow evoke a sense of fear about the matter of rape.

There is no set way to teach you how to respond. But I think the first thing you should understand is this: girls will definitely give out hints if they are mentally prepared to go further. So I also hope that men will be able to catch this signal in time and take the next step positively and bravely. Of course there are times when she will gently wipe off the dust sticking to her body for you, and there are times when she laughs too much and taps you on the shoulder. This is when touching is not really touching. In contrast, when a woman naturally touches your shoulder or back, it means that she is not repulsed by physical contact. Sometimes it can also be considered that women are eager to have physical contact with you, men should seize the opportunity to hold her hand bravely, girls suddenly began to reject physical contact, which is the main reason!

Problem 1 keywords: confessed after the girl backtracked

Girls last night sent me a microblogging, said I like you, I did not see, after 2 hours, followed by a sentence, the game is just, do not take it seriously. So it’s safe to assume that the girl is interested in me, right? I invite out to make it clear, will we get together?

Since she said it was just a game, it would be too deliberate for you to invite her out again.
First of all, let’s analyse the girl’s psychology, in the vast majority of cases, if it is a game, the girl should be in the game within 30 minutes after the game and you explain, will not be delayed to two hours, obviously because you can not get your reply, only to find such a reason to solve their own embarrassment.

And you, what you have to do now, not to go after her to ask whether it is true, the general situation of girls in order to maintain their own face will tell you: just playing a game;

Nor to ask her out to confess, girls will be more careful because of the previous situation to deal with the relationship between you, so the girl is most likely to refuse you.

To sum up, if the girl who confesses to you, you don’t like, then you just treat the matter as a joke; if the girl who confesses to you you happen to like, what you have to do is, treat the matter as if it didn’t happen.

With a joking way to turn this thing over, “so it is a game ah, cause me to white excited half an hour” “ouch, how to reverse it, I am preparing the declaration of love it!” …… Then just follow the normal attraction process of asking a girl out and escalating the relationship!

Question 2 keyword: reject physical contact
This girl I’ve been talking to and meeting has been great… About a month ago, we held hands and kissed… But after a week, her attitude towards me changed… but WhatsApp chatting is normal… And we can hold hands when we go out…

Last Sunday, I asked her out to watch a film and have dinner, but she kept playing with her phone, and she wasn’t enthusiastic about chatting with me, and she kept a distance from me when we walked, and she avoided me with her hands… But when she came back from dinner, and for a few days afterwards, she even messaged me… I don’t know what’s wrong.

According to your description to analyse, the girl in and you hold hands after kissing suddenly began to cold to you, the reasons are basically as follows

Reason 1: You are not upgrading emotionally at the same time as you are upgrading physically.

Meaning: you are already physically a couple, but you and the girl’s emotions, sense of connection, intimacy did not upgrade, the girl will feel awkward, worried that you just want to date, worried that you are not serious about the relationship.

So will begin to resist and your physical intimacy, such as: rejection of holding hands, rejection of intimate contact in public. If it is for this reason, what boys have to do is to say a little more “sweet words”, more and girls talk about the future, planning and arrangements for life and so on.

Reason 2: you in the first step after the escalation, did not continue to escalate, the girl feels hung up not on, so began to use the cold way to let you launch a further offensive.

Girls will be worried that you are a playboy, not serious about the relationship, so she sent you one such test, try your attitude towards feelings, if she is cold, you give up, then she will identify you as a relationship cheater.

If she is cold and you are eager, the girl will only think that you are a little loser who is good to handle. You should escalate your relationship at your own pace!

Reason 3: In the process of upgrading your relationship, other competitors appear.

There is no way to avoid this, because you like the girl can not be no one likes, so you have to do is to continue to build their own, continue to increase the attractiveness of the girl, to master the relationship upgrading tempo, do not panic because of the “third party” appeared.

Question 3 Keywords: Unable to commit to a new relationship
Mr An, hello! Two months after her breakup, we met at the end of 16 years, 17 years on Valentine’s Day she agreed to be my girlfriend. The first time to mention break up March 5, the reason said is that the feeling state is not right, can not go into a new relationship, depressing, do not like this feeling.

The first meeting with me will remember the previous things, memories of heartache, want to cry, feel a kind of betrayal, sorry for me. Be a friend. The next day to find her, agreed to continue to deal with.

The second time I broke up with her on the 16th of March. She felt that because I was good to her and like me, do not meet will think, see will be very happy. However, she felt that she couldn’t fully commit to me and couldn’t find the feeling of being in love. Very emotional after promising to be my girlfriend.

She feels guilty for receiving gifts and owes me a lot. Usually intentionally close to me, but their hearts reject, feel depressed, do not want to get along. I feel psychologically ill, and I always want to find an ocean to jump into and die.

If you want to get through it, you will come to me and jump me directly. Three days later, he came to me, and then he was gone. The third April 21. mid-April bought me a pair of shoes. But said May 1 to meet the parents, she said the closer the time the more panic.

Feeling unable to say love me, unable to say like me. I want to break up. WeChat deleted me. I want to salvage her!

The girl’s current state should be that she thinks you are still good and wants to continue with you, but there are some problems in your getting along process, which leads to her not being able to devote herself to this new relationship.
And your way of dealing with it is actually all coaxing and dragging, hoping that time can change her thoughts and attitudes, leading to more and more monstrous relationship between you, and ultimately can only break up.

Firstly, I’ll talk about the problems that existed during your relationship:

One, she should be a more one-dimensional girl, so after she broke up you quickly into her life and started a relationship with her, she will have a sense of self-guilt.

She will feel guilty for entering into a new relationship so quickly, for being so easy to get into, for being such a casual woman. And you are not here to guide the girls, reduce the girls’ guilt, so the girls will be more and more anxious.

Second, in the process of getting along with you should give her a lot of pressure, resulting in her for this relationship to produce a “powerless” feeling, such as planning the future with her, gifts, parents and so on, you give me a kind of your feelings about this relationship is too hard feeling.

Particularly worried about the girl left you, so want to use all means to tie her around, girls in the relationship itself will be more cautious, and your force is too strong directly to let the girl to produce the idea of escape.

If you want to get her back, you need to take a step back, go back to being friends and start the relationship again, this is one of the best options you can choose at the moment.

You can now add back to the girl’s WhatsApp and tell her, “I want to get reacquainted with you and start as friends.” She is a girl who is very easy to soften her heart, as long as you have sincerity, she will surely agree.

Then in this period of time together, first establish a sense of trust, so that the girl began to trust you, and then enter the girl’s life as a friend rather than a suitor or boyfriend.

Establish a sense of connection and intimacy with her, gradually let her get used to you being by her side, when the sense of connection, trust, and intimacy to a certain degree you can upgrade your relationship again. You have to remember that the problem between you is not the problem of your ex, but the problem of your relationship, you lack communication, understanding and trust, to solve these problems is the key to restore your relationship.